Synchronicity and The Illusion of Time

Synchronicity and The Illusion of Time

Many people have told me they do not like the word “illusion.” I have explored other words and found that the word illusion is really the best word for what I am attempting to describe. Yesterday I was looking at the word illusion again, and what came up in a search was a post in reddit.com/askphilosphy. Someone was sharing their opinion that anyone who is talking about the illusion of time needs to explain what they mean or they are just trying to sound smart. I can see what this person means. However, in my experience there is much we can do to notice that time is an illusion without any intellectual discourse at all. And that is through direct experience. We can, and do indeed have experiences that are beyond the illusion of time. I think everyone has had periods where they felt time passed much more quickly than they had anticipated, or much more slowly.   We could say that that is a matter of perspective and not a demonstration of the time being an illusion. That may be, but the purpose of Unlimited Psychology is to assist us in shifting our focus.  Acknowledging scientific discoveries that say that time is an illusion, and exploring that for ourselves is one example of this. Have you ever fallen asleep, then when you woke up thought it was the next morning? Most of us have experience this at least once and may have even got out of bed got dressed and may have even started to leave ,or even actually left our homes to go wherever it is that we...
The Illusion of Responsibility

The Illusion of Responsibility

As I write this post I am in the midst of letting go of a layer of conditioning that has kept me bundled up in guilt, blame and shame.   The belief that “it’s all my fault, it’s my responsibility.”  “Beating yourself up” is another way to refer to this illusion, or at least a side effect of believing in it.  These false beliefs may develop in childhood when we take on the burden of something that couldn’t possibly be our fault, but we try to fix things in our world in an attempt to feel better and make others in our lives feel better too.  We may simply be unaware of the option to just be, to just let things be, and to just be ourselves.  We might be vulnerable to this because of “past life” predisposition, or we may incorporate our parents inability to just be or let things be as they are, or other reasons.  In essence, we take on a sense of responsibility for others and for things that just are not within our control.  We could also call this codependence, but the illusion of responsibility can be even more toxic, convincing, all encompassing, invasive and downright debilitating!  The good news is that we can live beyond it!  Especially when we do not try to make it go away, paradoxically, the illusion of responsibility begins to loose its grip on us. (If  you wish you can Get a Free Report which Reveals 3 Tones of Empowerment by joining our email list when you click the purple box at the bottom of this post.)   In much the same way...
Empowerment is Natural

Empowerment is Natural

Transforming Self-Doubt can be central to other big and happy changes in how we view ourselves and the world. Sometimes it only takes a little shift in perspective to trigger a whole domino effect of change in our view of ourselves.  I had one along time ago when I was in a destructive relationship.   The man I was involved with said I was screaming at him.  All of a sudden it dawned on me that I wasn’t screaming, or even raising my voice,  but I was saying something he did not want to hear.  I checked with people who were in the same house and they confirmed it.  They hadn’t even heard me talking, let alone screaming.  I was prepared to apologize!  I learned more and more as time went on that self-doubt was not a necessary or helpful way to look at myself.  Being willing to be wrong is easier, and much more effective than just doubting ourselves.  A simple course correction is easy when we see we are wrong about something.  Doubt is not required!  Openness to something beyond being right or wrong is a healthier and much more effective approach to life!  It also makes us feel freer to explore possibilities rather than clamp down on ourselves with doubt.  This brings me to the title of this blog.  Empowerment is natural!  When we simply allow ourselves to be, there is no need for doubt and we can make a course correction if we need to based on learning new information, finding a great resource, finding a supportive and complementary mentor, etc.  This can take some practice...
Transform Self-Doubt Into Trust In Your Intuition!

Transform Self-Doubt Into Trust In Your Intuition!

How could we possibly make that kind of a change?  Well it’s easier that you might think!  In fact I’m finding its one of those things that is so easy it seems hard….What?  We just get used to trying too hard that it takes an adjustment to just let things be easier is what I really mean.  The truth is there is evidence all around us that shows us we can trust our intuition all the time!.  Have you ever had a feeling and you listened and then realized you avoided,  let’s say, a car accident? That is just one of the stories I’ve heard when asking people about this topic.   And of course its one of the more obvious and easy to notice, but what about the more subtle things, like say when you forgot to get chill powder at the grocery store but then you open the cupboard and the very first thing you see right in front of you is chili powder!!  That just happened to me the other day!  But I did make a commitment some time ago to start looking for evidence of intuition at work.   I had some experiences when I did NOT listen to my intuition and boy was that a bad idea!  Sometimes those experiences can really show us that our intuition is correct though, so I am glad it happened a lot, or at least enough to get my attention.  It led me to just keep testing it.  Lately there have been some real miracles that seem to pop out of nowhere.  I even started to think I was...
Start the New Year By Transforming Self-Doubt!!

Start the New Year By Transforming Self-Doubt!!

Hello and Welcome to our latest blog post!   Although many of us do get caught in the the trap of self-doubt, or we get stuck in not so supportive states, we also have the capacity to embrace and live in a state of freedom even while we are still learning to adapt to life without doubting ourselves.  Self-Doubt is a state that can mirror addiction.  However the most important purpose of this work is to come to peace with our current level of development, not to make our states of mind “wrong.”  The time has come for us to learn to accept where we are, even those things we find “unacceptable.”  There are tremendous gifts in the areas we find “bad” or “negative” that we miss when we allow our consciousness to be locked into duality.  These are parts of us we have decided that are “bad” and must be buried or hidden, or kept from the light.  When we simply breath and allow what is to be, we open the door to miracles and find we can transform self-doubt.  In fact it is one of my favorite realizations that we can actually trust ourselves to the same degree that we have self-doubt!  I know this might sound weird but I’m finding it to be true more and more!!  So click the purple button to download the 3 Tones of Empowerment and get the new year started by turning your perspective around to embrace your true nature! Click to Get Your Free...

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